"Why Does Love Feel This Hard?!"
Understand the soul contract of your relationship — and finally turn those painful emotional triggers into the deep connection you've been craving.
The Human Design reading that helps you feel seen, safe, and clear in love, without losing yourself in the process.
Does this sound like you?
You’ve done the healing, learned the lessons, built the self-awareness — but still find yourself in a relationship that doesn’t make sense.
You crave deep, soul-aligned connection — but still find yourself performing or people-pleasing just to stay connected.
You want to grow together inside your relationship — but it feels like you’re outgrowing the same stuck patterns.
You’re ready to stop questioning if you’re too much or not enough for your partner — but every time you express a need, you feel like the problem.
You want a sacred, conscious partnership — but you’re tired of carrying the emotional weight alone.
You want to finally know - are you the problem? Is your partner the problem?
Love isn't the problem...
It’s the unseen patterns playing out beneath it.
You don’t need another conversation.
You don’t need another tool.
You need a mirror.
This isn’t therapy.
This is energetic truth-telling for your relationship.
It’s where the emotional shutdowns, fights, spirals, and silence finally make sense — through the lens of Human Design + the Gene Keys.
Because what’s flaring up between you isn’t random.
It’s energetic.
It’s karmic.
It’s written in your charts.
Introducing...
The Relationship Alchemy Reading
The Relationship Alchemy Reading is a Human Design + Gene Keys reading (based on the combination of your Human Design chart + your partner's) for the emotionally intelligent woman who’s ready to finally understand the energetic truth of her relationship — so she can stop shrinking, over-functioning, or spiraling, and start loving from clarity.
This reading reveals:
🜂 Where your connection sparks
🜂 Where it clashes
🜂 How your souls are wired to evolve through each other
So instead of spiraling in blame or confusion…
You finally meet each other with clarity, compassion, and conscious choice.
This isn’t just a reading.
It’s a relationship reckoning — one that shows you the truth of your love story, and the self you’ve been waiting to become inside it.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
A 60-75 Minute customized video of me walking through your Human Design charts (side-by-side & combined), naming the exact energetic dynamics creating both sparks and tension
Deliver in 7-10 days via email. A deep, intuitive, and psychologically grounded Human Design + Gene Keys reading that names the energetic roots of your relationship — so you can stop trying to “fix” the surface and start understanding what’s really going on.Clarity on your relationship’s soul contract
You’ll learn whether your relationship is a karmic mirror, growth portal, grounding bond, etc. — and what that means for your emotional safety, intimacy, and evolution.Pinpointed insights into emotional triggers and energetic shutdowns
You’ll see where the tension lives in your relationship — and why it keeps repeating — so you can stop personalizing the pain and start reclaiming your power.
BONUS:
💌 7 Days of Post-Reading Email Support
To process what lands, ask follow-up questions, and anchor the clarity.
The Investment - $333 USD
How It Works
1. After you purchase, you fill out a short form (with birth info for both of you + context)
2. I analyze both of your charts
3. You receive your video via email within 7–10 days
TESTIMONIALS
Client Love
“This changed the way we communicate. We’ve watched it 3 times already.”
-M + A
Projector + Generator
“This gave me a deep sense of peace.”
-Vanessa J.
Generator
“I’ve gotten a lot of readings — but this was next-level. This is like sacred relationship work.”
-Serena P.
Manifesting Generator
“This reading explained so much in terms of what’s really going on between me and my husband and what I could do differently to change the hurtful patterns we’ve fallen into over the years. I stopped blaming myself and I also stopped blaming him.”
-Allison M.
Projector
BACKED BY OUR Satisfaction Guarantee
If you don’t walk away feeling more clear, connected, and energetically seen — I’ll offer a 50% refund. Period.
About Me
Hi, I’m Nicole, and I’m living proof that you can have soul-level clarity in your relationship without abandoning yourself or begging for closeness.
After 20+ years of experience working in the fields of education and psychology, and the past five years as a Human Design coach and reader, I’ve learned that the most important thing about creating safety, intimacy, and truth in love isn’t JUST learning to “communicate better” or managing your nervous system during conflict.
It’s understanding the energetic contract of your relationship — and reclaiming the truth of who you are inside of it.
Because until you see the pattern, you can’t shift it.
And real talk? Because being the self-aware one in the relationship doesn’t mean you have to carry the whole thing.
That’s why I created The Relationship Alchemy Reading.
Because I’m here for deep-feeling, spiritually awake women having sacred, emotionally clear, soul-aligned love without getting stuck in the same spiral of shutdown, silence, or self-blame.
✨ Ready? Let’s meet your relationship with eyes wide open — and finally understand what it’s here to teach you.
FAQS
No, not necessarily. You’re welcome to book this reading solo. The work is still powerful, because it’s your clarity that shifts the dynamic — whether your partner is doing the work or not.
That said, if both of you are open, even better.
Absolutely. You don’t have to be having problems in your relationship to explore the dynamic between you. Some of the most powerful sessions happen when you’re already in a good place — but want to go deeper, unlock new layers of intimacy, or just stop the small problems before they become big ones.
Nope. This isn’t therapy — and it’s not trying to be. This is energetic pattern recognition rooted in Human Design, the Gene Keys, and shadow work. We’re not unpacking childhood trauma or moderating conflict. We’re naming the energetic dynamics beneath the patterns — so you can stop spinning in the same story and actually understand what’s happening (and why it hurts so much).
This is for you if:
You feel a deep connection with your partner…but keep looping through the same emotional patterns
You’re in a new relationship — and want to get clear on your dynamic before your old wounds run the show
You crave soul tools for navigating conflict, intensity, and “wait, what just happened?” moments in your relationship
You’re ready to understand your triggers — instead of taking them personally
You believe love is sacred work — not something that needs to be “fixed”
Yes. I break it all down in real language — no jargon, no “guru speak.” This isn’t about memorizing your chart. It’s about understanding the emotional and energetic impact of your dynamic — in a way that feels real, grounded, and usable.
After purchase, you’ll fill out a short form with both of your birth details (date, time, location) + a little relationship context. That’s it. I take it from there.
You’ll receive your video reading within 7–10 days of purchase. Everything is sent via email, and it’s yours to keep forever.
Great! Please email us at hi@hdpsychologist.com.
A Different Kind of Love Work Starts Here
You were never meant to have a “normal” relationship.
The love you’re holding? It’s sacred.
But sacred doesn’t always mean easy.
Sometimes it means burning through the old story.
Sometimes it means holding each other even when the shadows appear.
Sometimes it means seeing the parts of yourself you’d rather avoid — reflected in the person you love most.
What if the tension in your relationship isn’t a sign to walk away…
but an invitation to look closer?
Because you’re not meant to keep repeating and revisiting the same wounds.
You’re meant to alchemize it — into deeper love.
Let’s begin.👇
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